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  Certified Genuine User, another trusted member has indicated that they personally know and recommend this user. GandL4Fun2
Member since: 01/16/06
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Couple Him: Straight
Her: Straight

Mail History Drinks
He:  57   5'8   173
She: 53   5'3   155
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Interest Levels
Tame 1 on a scale of 0-4     Couples 4 on a scale of 0-4
Moderate 3 on a scale of 0-4     Males 3 on a scale of 0-4
Wild 4 on a scale of 0-4     Females 3 on a scale of 0-4
Desired Age Range
35 to 60
Other Info
  • Drinkers OK
  • Smokers OK
    Inquire within.... we just might surprise you

    Short Tag Line:
    Inquire within.... we just might surprise you

    I/We are looking for
    Weekends at the beach .... ready for something new!

    SINGLE MEN - Age 35-60, We are still looking for that single guy!!!
    Please send facial or G-rated pic with email. No chat requests please - No cheaters. If your profile is limited to a mere few lines then please send more than a one line email, we really want to know a little about you! If she is not interested, we will send a courtesy notice only.

    We are a normal couple with a sense of adventure! We want to meet people that are fun to talk to, love to laugh and are not in a hurry. We are a secure, loving couple seeking new friends and adventures. We are very social and fun-loving and look forward to meeting people with a great sense of humor. We are looking for people to strike up a friendship first. We enjoy same room experiences, soft swap or full swap or one big pile. ;) Things must be comfortable for everyone involved.

    If sex is all that is on your mind, and you lack any witty conversation skills with the ability to have intelligent and entertaining conversation, maybe we are not for you! We love to talk, joke, kid and entertain!

    We only play together and under the right circumstances he enjoys watching her be pleased before joining in. She likes to see him pleased by another female with the option to join in. We would like to explore some fantasies when we find the right couple, female or male and we are being very selective on all.

    Describe Yourself:
    We are easy-going and fun and have really enjoyed meeting new people here. We enjoy dinners, dancing, the beach (Pirate's Cove is on the favorites list!), regular everyday stuff that couples like to do BUT great sex really tops it off.

    He can be forward and flirtatious (but never pushy) and she likes to flirt and be flirted with. It is all about the FUN and if the chemistry is right things can really go wild! Neither of us are homophobic, both of us are straight and that is unusual to some, but that is our comfort zone. A little innocent female erotic behavior can be fun but definitely not our focus. We are both clean & trimmed and we prefer that you be the same.

    Tell us about your fantasies and/or real experiences.
    We have experienced some of our fantasies but still have more. We can share details as we get to know you and hope to hear some of yours as well!

    We have attended several dances and have enjoyed ourselves. They are a great venue for an ice-breaker but we have found that we really prefer the more intimate settings to get to know people and enjoy the play and banter that can occur in a normally public setting!

    We co-host a group on this site for a group of people that we have met and consider friends. If you like us we also hope that you will like our friends. We have made some very good friends in the lifestyle and have had some great times and look forward to many more! You can find us at the Good Times in Central Calif events planned in Fresno and at the coast!

    What else would you like to say, do, see, hear about or learn about.
    If you are interested in getting to know us please drop a line. We can be contacted under the same name at Yahoo if you would like to chat first or e-mail. Additional personal information and pictures available after contact. Discretion is a must. No insecurities or jealousies please. Check us out, we are approachable! Must absolutely make hygiene and honesty a priority!

    Please send pics when you e-mail us unless they are on your profile, we feel it is only fair as we have pictures available for you as well. "G" rated is preferred at first and due to some previous experiences we will not meet until we have seen facial pics, no exceptions!!!

    NOTE - PLEASE READ!!!!!!!
    If you are married or in a committed relationship but not playing with your wife/Sig Other then we will expect to have evidence of their approval. We do not play with cheaters but do understand that occasionally a partner may want to take a break and we would expect openness and honesty with all parties involved (which does include your partner). We hope you understand and if not, sorry, those are our rules!

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